Husband: Are you getting your hair cut soon?Once I had stopped laughing, I thought this was a good life lesson to us all- sometimes, they just don't notice. It is just the way they are and it is ok (and perhaps somewhat humourous and endearing). So maybe we should just all make a game of it. Change something and then see how long it takes for the men in your life to notice...
Me: (laughing) I got my hair cut yesterday*H: : What? It doesn’t look that different…M: (laughing even harder) I have BANGS…H: (slightly incredulous) oh yeah…you do have bangs…M: I actually lost a lot of hair yesterday…it is quite different and I’m still not 100% if I like it yetH: well, you had it in a ponytail for most of today and…M: and I still had bangs… (I take my hair out of the ponytail and do a little turn around)H: Oh, you’re right, it IS very different…I think it looks good.
What about you- do you think my theory is sound? Any funny stories about people not noticing a change? Or about noticing a change and reacting in a funny way? (When we were young, my sister once asked my dad to put his moustache back on after he shaved it)
*he got home very late that day, so there was no way for him to have noticed the actual day I got it cut since I was already asleep.